I am looking for a dominant man that truly understands what BDSM means, it is not just about sex, it is very mental also. I am not ust looking for a fuck, I am looking for someone who can be fun and that I enjoy being around, I can be a talker and like to have fun, in and out of the sheets. Going to local BDSM events, is a requirement, I am not a swinger.

My Ideal Person I have a very dominant personality, I am a take charge kind of girl. If you a submissive, I will chew you up and spit you out, it will not go well for you .

I need a man that is dominant in a quiet way that does not make me feel threatened, we need to be partners and equal in the day to day world, while you quietly dominate me in our BDSM lifestyle. You won't be married or attached. I am not the girl to help you cheat.

I need to get to know you outside of the bedroom and dungeon. If you just want to fuck. Don't waste the bandwidth sending me messages. If your idea of dominance is the size of your cock, put it back in your pants. Your mind is the most important thing about you.